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Temperament
and Core-Need-Related Stress
Temperament-related stress is not the
same as the everyday stress of overwork,
overindulgence, and worries over money,
relationships, and so on. It results from
the core needs and values of the temperament
pattern not being met. As with most stress,
it is worse when it is unconscious. Knowledge
of ones own temperament pattern
can help manage and even prevent such
stress.
So how does this
play out in everyday life?
Here are some examples.
An Improviser
An Improviser calls his friend periodically,
when his job is oppressive, and talks
about becoming an independent consultant
and working with organizations. Shortly
after, he finds a new position with
his current employer where he can do
something exciting and impactful.
A Stabilizer
A Stabilizer was looking for a job even
though, financially, she did not need
to work. When asked why, she said her
membership needs were not being met
by being home alone. She wanted a job
that would give her a defined role and
a sense of belonging.
A Theorist
A Theorist takes up new projects to
feed his need for knowledge and competence,
even when he is overbooked. He tolerates
the stress of managing a
complex and hectic schedule to reduce
his temperament-related stress.
A Catalyst
A Catalyst quit her job and took a
big cut in pay. Her former organization
seemed to be ignoring the value of individuals
and focusing only on organizations.
Even though she agreed with her former
employer in principle, their mission
was not consistent with her unique identity.
Since quitting, she reports having much
less anxiety and stress.
These people all
know about their temperament needs and
thus have permission to seek
ways of meeting them. They are lucky.
For those who are not aware and for whom
life has not been so kind, temperament-related
stress can turn into severe dysfunction.
But that is another story belonging to
the realm of psychopathology and therapy.
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Catalyst™
CORE NEEDS
- Meaning and Significance
- Unique Identity
STRESSORS
- Insincerity
- Betrayal
- Lack of Integrity
WHEN STRESSED
- Disassociates
- Becomes Phony
ANTIDOTES
FOR STRESS
- Affirmation and Nurturing from
Self and Others
- New Quests"
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Stabilizer™
CORE
NEEDS
- Membership or Belonging
- Responsibility or Duty
STRESSORS
- Abandonment
- Insubordination
- Lack of Belonging
WHEN
STRESSED
- Complains
- Becomes Sick, Tired,
Sorry, Worried
ANTIDOTES
FOR STRESS
- Inclusion in News and Activities,
Appreciation
- New Membership
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Theorist™
CORE NEEDS
- Mastery and Self-Control
- Knowledge and Competence
STRESSORS
- Powerlessness
- Incompetence
- Lack of Knowledge
WHEN STRESSED
- Obsesses
- Becomes Mindless
ANTIDOTES
FOR STRESS
- Reconfirmation of Competence
and Knowledge
- A New Project
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Improviser™
CORE
NEEDS
- Freedom to Act on Needs
of the Moment
- Ability to Make an Impact
- Constraint
- Boredom
- Lack of Impact
WHEN
STRESSED
- Retaliates
- Becomes Reckless
ANTIDOTES
FOR STRESS
- Finding Options and New
Ways to Have Impact
New Activities
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